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Phrases To Say - Intimate

Natural words for attraction, desire, consent, boundaries, and care—ready to find, personalize, and practice when the moment arrives. Written for consenting adults across bodies, orientations, relationship styles, and communication needs.

LifestyleFor consenting adultsComing soonRequires iOS 26
Phrases To Say - Intimate app artwork

What the app does

Open a card and use the wording as written, or adapt it until it sounds like you. The app is designed for quick reference and repeat practice, not long reading.

  • Browse natural phrases for connecting, flirting, inviting, expressing desire, checking in, guiding, declining, and stopping.
  • Find language for fantasy and kink negotiation, sexting privacy, safer-sex conversations, repair, aftercare, and next-time debriefs.
  • Practice with quick drills, six-turn dialogues, and consent-aware situations that continue beyond the opening line.
  • Use Moment Match to search the reviewed offline library from a situation you type or dictate.
  • Personalize flexible wording, save favorites, add your own phrases, and organize the library without creating an account.

App information

The App Store listing is being prepared. The first five entries in each bundled library are available without a subscription; Premium unlocks the complete library and supported on-device drafting. Choose $9.99 per month or $29.99 per year; App Store-localized prices may vary by storefront. New content is added periodically through app updates.

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Communication map

From before to after

The library follows recurring communication purposes across the moment: connect, invite, explore, say yes, check in, guide, set a boundary, and care afterward.

Periodic table of intimate phrases organized by communication purpose and moment.

Screenshots

Find the words, then practice the moment

Phrase cards, intents, Moment Match, drills, dialogues, and situations keep the wording and the practice close together.

Phrases To Say - Intimate home screen with phrases, intents, practice, drills, dialogues, and Moment Match.

A phrase-first library

Move from a ready-to-say line into intents, practice, drills, dialogues, and your personal library.

Phrases To Say - Intimate intent browser for communication goals.

Browse by intent

Choose the move you need: connect, invite, explore, check in, guide, decline, repair, aftercare, and more.

Phrases To Say - Intimate phrase card with context and controls.

Words ready to say

Read the phrase, reveal its context, personalize flexible language, copy it, or mark it for practice.

Phrases To Say - Intimate consent-aware practice situation.

Practice the moment

Work through realistic choices and rehearse what to say next when the moment changes.

Phrases To Say - Intimate speaking drill with a revealed sample answer.

Rehearse a clear line

Use a focused prompt, reveal a natural sample answer, and practice saying it gently and clearly.

Phrases To Say - Intimate dialogue showing several consent-aware conversational turns.

Practice the conversation

Reveal the back-and-forth one turn at a time, including check-ins, answers, and respectful follow-through.

Phrases To Say - Intimate Moment Match search screen.

Match a situation

Describe the moment and search the reviewed on-device library for language that fits.

Workflow

Find, personalize, practice, keep

This is a communication reference for consenting adults. It is not medical, legal, relationship, or emergency advice.

Find

Open an intent, search the library, or describe the situation in Moment Match.

Personalize

Replace bracketed prompts with words that fit the people, boundary, body, or dynamic.

Practice

Use drills, dialogues, and situations to rehearse the opening and what may follow.

Keep

Favorite, copy, edit, tag, reorder, and add the phrases you want close at hand.

Consent and safety

Desire is not permission. Consent is specific, ongoing, and can change at any time. The library treats yes, maybe, no, pause, stop, and changing your mind as equally valid—and teaches accepting a boundary without pressure or repeated asking.